Christmas traditions bring comfort and joy, but some have outlived their charm—or their practicality. At the same time, there are others that still fill our hearts with warmth and connection, just as they did decades ago. Let’s take a walk down memory lane to revisit the traditions we might be better off letting go of—and the ones that are worth preserving for future generations.
12 Christmas Traditions to Let Go Of
1. Tinsel Overload
Remember when tinsel got absolutely everywhere? While it looked magical under twinkling lights, it was a nightmare to clean up. Plus, it’s not exactly eco-friendly. Let’s trade in tinsel for simpler, more sustainable sparkle.
2. Canned Snow on Windows
Sure, spraying fake snow on windows seemed like a good idea at the time, but the streaks and residue it left behind weren’t exactly festive. A clean window with warm lights shining through feels just as magical.
3. Oversized Inflatable Lawn Decor
Blow-up Santas and snowmen might be fun for kids, but they can overshadow the natural beauty of a winter yard. Subtle wreaths or string lights bring just as much cheer without overwhelming the neighborhood.
4. Forcing Kids to Sit on Santa’s Lap
For generations, we marched kids to the mall for that classic (and often awkward) photo op. But times have changed, and not all little ones are comfortable with this tradition. It’s okay to let it go if it doesn’t bring joy.
5. Endless Holiday Cards
We all love staying in touch, but handwriting dozens of cards—and finding the right address—is a big undertaking. Digital greetings or a thoughtful call can feel just as personal without the added stress.
6. Overstuffed Gift Exchanges
Piles of presents might look nice, but they can lead to financial stress and overshadow the season’s true meaning. Scaling back to a few meaningful gifts makes the holiday more enjoyable for everyone.
7. Silver Christmas Trees
Once a symbol of modern chic, aluminum Christmas trees from the 1960s feel more like a relic than a tradition now. A real tree—or even a high-quality faux one—brings back that cozy holiday magic.
8. The Perfectly Coordinated Family Photo
Matching outfits for a family photo was a must, but the stress of organizing everyone’s wardrobe often outweighed the fun. Let’s focus on candid, joyful moments instead.
9. Fruitcake
It’s the holiday dessert we all love to mock, but how many of us actually eat it? Fruitcake has been passed around more than it’s been enjoyed. It’s time to retire this one.
10. Over-the-Top Light Displays
While the Griswolds made us laugh, those mega-light displays are a huge energy drain and a lot of work. A simple, elegant setup can be just as breathtaking.
11. Stocking Stuffer Overkill
Stuffing stockings to the brim with trinkets and gadgets often leads to waste. A few thoughtful items are more than enough to capture the spirit of surprise.
12. Rigidly Scheduled Celebrations
Trying to squeeze in every tradition and every family visit on Christmas Day can leave everyone exhausted. Spreading the festivities over several days makes for a more relaxed and enjoyable holiday.
5 Christmas Traditions Worth Passing Down
1. Trimming the Tree Together
Decorating the Christmas tree as a family is one of the most beloved traditions. It’s not about perfection—it’s about togetherness, storytelling, and those handmade ornaments that make us smile every year.
2. Baking Holiday Treats
Whether it’s sugar cookies, gingerbread houses, or grandma’s famous fudge, holiday baking fills the house with warmth and sweetness. Sharing recipes and time in the kitchen is a tradition that bonds generations.
3. Caroling or Singing Christmas Songs
While door-to-door caroling is less common, gathering to sing Christmas songs—whether it’s around a piano or during a family party—always brings joy and connection.
4. Reading a Christmas Story
From The Night Before Christmas to the nativity story, sharing a favorite holiday tale with kids is a tradition that sparks imagination and reminds us of the holiday’s deeper meanings.
5. Giving Back
Whether it’s volunteering, donating to charity, or helping a neighbor in need, the tradition of giving back embodies the true spirit of Christmas. It’s a beautiful way to pass on the value of kindness.
As much as we love the nostalgia of holidays past, sometimes letting go of old traditions makes way for new, more meaningful ones. And holding onto the ones that bring us together ensures the Christmas spirit lives on for generations to come.
